Regarding Being Interviewed about Scientology

I recently got engaged in a discussion on Twitter, regarding attempts to get my religion properly represented in the media. It ended up pulling in She-Who-Will-Not-Be-Named, who wanted me to come appear on her farce of a show to represent Scientology.  The conversation culminated with the following statement by Sarah Daniels, an expert voice in real estate who’s no stranger to media appearances:

https://twitter.com/ItsSarahDaniels/status/908496724087513089

As answering complicated questions 140 characters-at-a-time on Twitter can be an exercise in infuriation, I made a video response, which I’d like to also direct to any other media outlet who would consider doing a piece where Scientologists and their beliefs might be discussed:

See, the mainstream media LOVES to depict stories of people who’ve been “wronged”.  Where their life has been “tragically impacted” by something and they live “scarred and broken” because of it. Where their circumstances are not their own responsibility, but are because of how “wronged” they’ve been.  The point, of course, is to generate viewer sympathy and keep their attention while you advertise to them.  

But, as a tool for that machine, I’m probably the last person on earth that would make for a good interview subject for them.

My Three Bikers Overlooking the Willamette

Far from being scarred, broken and bitter, I live a life primarily composed of activities of my own choosing.  I have a good job doing work that I love, I have three beautiful children that love spending time with me out on the trail exploring nature, and I have a beautiful wife I’ve been married to for 17+ years.   My relationship with my church, though, more than anything doesn’t lend itself to the corn & games media narrative, as it’s been overwhelmingly positive.  I’m a second-generation Scientologist, having decided to pursue such a path on my own accord.  In addition to my professional career, I’ve been a staff member of the church in local, regional and international capacities, and – shocker – my experience was positive.  I loved the work I did, and honestly found it immensely fulfilling.  I continue to have literally hundreds of close friends who are staff members and Sea Org members, and really enjoy interacting with them.  

So, if my experiences are positive, then what would I talk about?   

I answer questions all the time about life as a Scientologist, so I guess I could go there.  Like:

  • What are my core beliefs?
  • What requirements does the church put on me, with respect to my schedule or my day-to-day life, or things that I “must do” because I’m a Scientologist?
  • Am I allowed to be on the Internet?  Am I allowed to watch TV?
  • Am I allowed to associate with non-Scientologists?
  • Do I secretly worship alien overlords in a hidden underground sept under my house?

I run the Scientology Parent website, so I could answer all manner of questions about Scientology and the family, which some folks might find interesting.  I’m personal friends with literally hundreds of Scientologist families and their kids.  So, I have literally hundreds of topics I could speak to on that line, things like:

  • Do we allow women to use medication during childbirth?
  • Do kids have to get a Scientology education?
  • What happens if our kids decide they want to pursue a different religious path than I did?

That might be of some interest.

Or, I’d be happy to talk about my time as a Church staff member.  My wife was a staff member of the church when we met, and for the two of us, our time on staff was filled with simultaneously some of the most difficult yet personally fulfilling work we’ve ever done in our lives.  My wife always worked in the area of Scientology training, teaching the materials themselves, and I worked alternately in personnel as well as years working on the Church’s internet properties.  My dad, my mom and my sister all still work for the church as well, so I have a deep well with which to draw from, in terms of personal experience.   

I know, however, that A&E’s financial motivation on their series depends on painting the church in the worst possible light, so all of the subject matter above would make for an episode they’d fine nauseatingly positive.   But if anyone else happened to be brave enough to counter their media machine, and do a vignette on what being a member of the Scientology community is actually like, I’d be all for appearing and telling my story.

 

5 thoughts on “Regarding Being Interviewed about Scientology

  • September 17, 2017 at 12:26 am
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    Hi Tad, Maybe you could create your own documentary and interview some real Scientologists? Just food for thought.

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    • September 19, 2017 at 8:15 am
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      Hi Megan, you mean like the “Meet a Scientologist” video channel? 🙂

      http://www.scientology.org/videos/meet-a-scientologist.html

      There are over a hundred videos (and that’s probably a low estimate).

      Like Tad says, it just doesn’t fit in with A&E’s agenda. The truth is there on the Scientology website for anyone to watch and read.

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      • September 19, 2017 at 2:21 pm
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        Mike – the Meet a Scientologist videos are fantastic, and they do an outstanding job of giving a rapid overview of the broad variety of people who are involved in Scientology and what they like about it.

        I think, though, that what Megan is suggesting also has merit – interviews that go much more in-depth with Scientologists, to get how they feel about a wide variety of issues. Getting to understand Scientologist in-depth, in terms of how they approach family, work and social challenges, and how their religious beliefs and their community fit into this, I think this would definitely have the interest of a few people.

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        • October 18, 2017 at 11:30 pm
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          Have you reached out to Scientology Media Productions? I understand they’re putting together some long-form programming for a television network, maybe they would be interested in working with you on a Scientology parenting series?

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  • November 16, 2017 at 4:10 pm
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    So tell your story. And then seek out the stories they are telling. I’m a independent Baptist, i believe the Bible is the inerrant Word of God but if people in my faith where being treated as some of the people that have told their story, I would listen. You refuse to listen and assume it’s all hate… Why would they lie? How do you know Leah is paying them? Have you sat in the same room and heard the discussions to script the show? Have you seem the paychecks? Leah and Mike probably do get paid because any reality network pays you for letting them film… Teen mom 2 for example…. You say they are only telling one side? Then tell yours… But do it not to dig at them or cause strife but to show there are other sides and there is good… Then consider…these high executives like Mike rinder, how do u know they aren’t telling the truth? If they are, then of course the church is gonna attack them rather than own up to it. The point is that it’s wrong and you should want to help families stay together and if someone trusted the faith and doesn’t like it… They should be able to leave and not lose their family… As far as speaking out against the church? My faith comes under attack all the time…. We agree to disagree, i dont have to prove anything and I’m not going to disconnect with you just cause you don’t like my faith… That’s the point. Just saying.

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